The Thrill of Power: Top 10 Female Dominant Sex Positions

When it comes to revamping one’s sex life, there’s something innately exciting about flipping traditional gender roles. Yes, we’re talking about “female dominant” positions, where the woman takes the reins and leads the exploration of new dimensions of pleasure. This isn’t just about becoming the dominant partner; it’s about discovering new sensations and boosting your total satisfaction, both in and out of the bedroom.

In this simply riveting, absolutely one-of-a-kind blog post, we delve into the top ten female-dominant sex positions, each packed with its own special brand of sultry satisfaction. Are you ready to dive into this realm where, quite rightly, the lady wears the pants? Let’s get started.

1. Cowgirl Domination This is a classic position and perfect for the lady who’s eager to take charge. This unrivaled position can heighten sensation, given the climax is right in your line of sight, drawing you closer to your ultimate goal. You’re in charge, riding the wave of pleasure. Feel free to set the pace, vary your angles, and make sure your arousal matches the rhythm you crave.

   • Lean back slightly for a better ride, insert cushions or pillows under your knees for added comfort. • Sit up straight, leaning slightly forward, to create a tighter grip around their shaft. • Arch your back and add a handbra, gripping their chest or thighs for a variation in balance and sensations.

2. Reverse Cowgirl Arguably, this is even more empowering than the classic “cowgirl” because it gives you a show. You’ll also have full access to your clitoris for mutual pleasure. As you bounce up and down, take full control over your movements, every buck and sway designed to maximize pleasure.

   • Test different forward and backward tilts to lengthen or shorten the angle. • Lean back and wriggle your hips, thrusting backwards instead of forwards to switch things up. • Maintain eye contact for some serious heat.

3. The Spider While you maintain full control of the depth and rhythm, the clitoral action in this position cannot be paramount. If you’re looking for a more close-up intimate experience, the spider’s perfect.

   • Start in a seated position close to each other. • Lower yourself onto his erection while maintaining your open-legged “spider” pose. • Use your arms and knees for support and experiment with the rocking movement.

4. The Valedictorian This position allows for deep penetration, but also gives the woman control over the pace. It’s a little less high-glamour than some, but don’t let that daunt you: it can deliver astounding pleasure.

   • The receiving partner lies back, supporting their own head. • Use your hand to pull them down for deeper penetration. • Vary your movements: smooth strokes, short thrusts, deep circles. The choice is yours!

5. The Seated Straddle There’s something truly dominant about the standing straddle. You stand over your partner who’s lying down, effectively towering over them. Their helplessness makes you feel more in control and it does wonders for your confidence. Use your feet for extra leverage and enjoy the change in perspective.

6. The Teaser The Teaser begins like a classic blow job but then is taken to new heights with him fully seated. The visual thrill is immense and very empowering and it also allows more freedom than typical oral positions.

7. The Facesitter This is one powerful position - you’ll be in charge of the ride and of the rhythm, and don’t worry, because your partner wouldn’t have it any other way. He is completely at your mercy, literally at your feet. Hop on for ride of a lifetime, guiding him at the pace you love.

8. Legs on Shoulders In this simple yet effective woman-on-top position, stand with your hands on his chest. Lower your body until you’re close to his face. Raise your legs straight up, bending them at the knee. Your partner can thrust up into you using his hands to guide your hips.

9. The Jockey If you want deep, fulfilling penetration, and love the sensation of feeling filled up, The Jockey is the “female dominant” position for you. You’ll feel the full extent of his length, and are in full control of your movement. To give it that added kick, you can rotate your torso from side to side.

10. Rear-Entry Spoon When your partner is in a position of vulnerability, it can, in itself, be a turn-on, both for you and for them. In this sultry spooning position, you’re both lying down. Entering from behind, you’ll be in control of the depth, speed, and rhythm of the act.

Each one of these positions adds a fresh, unexpected twist to classic positions, encouraging couples to play with power dynamics, and fully explore the range of sensations each body can deliver. Each one offers its own unique brand of pleasure, total confidence, and incredible satisfaction. So next time you’re in the mood for reversing the roles, peruse this list. Trust us: you’re in for a true treat!

Frequently Asked Questions

What are some common female dominant sex positions?

Some common female dominant sex positions include Cowgirl (the person straddles and rides their partner face-to-face), Reverse Cowgirl (similar to the Cowgirl but with the partner facing their partner’s back), Pile Driver (where the person lifts their partner and holds them upside down, or “pile driver”-style), Spooning (both partners lie on their side, with the dominant person behind their partner), and Riding Booty (the dominant person mounts from behind, with their partner on all fours). Remember, communication is key, and what works best will vary from person to person.

Yes, as long as you engage in these activities with consent and communicating with your partner, it is perfectly safe to participate in female dominant sex positions. As with any sexual activity, it is important to listen to your body and communicate with your partner to ensure everyone feels comfortable and safe.

The Reverse Cowgirl is a female dominant sex position where the person straddles their partner, facing the opposite direction (away from their partner’s face). This position offers a unique perspective and allows for deeper penetration. To perform the Reverse Cowgirl, the person faces the partner’s feet, and straddles them while lifting or lowering themselves onto the partner’s genitals, either using their hands or holding onto their partner as support.

The Pile Driver is a female dominant sex position that is considered more advanced, as it requires the person to lift and hold their partner upside down. In this position, the partner assuming the dominant role lifts their partner by the waist and positions them so that their head is near the floor or bed (or supported by pillows), while the dominant person remains standing or kneeling. The dominant person then enters their partner from an upright angle.

While climax is not guaranteed through any specific sex position, female dominant sex positions can provide increased pleasure and the potential for climax for the dominant person. Positions like Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, and Riding Booty provide direct stimulation to the dominant person’s clitoris, which can increase the likelihood of climax. However, every body is different, and the keys to reaching climax are communication, consent, and patient exploration with a partner.