The Ultimate Guide To “How-To” Touch Yourself As A Modern Lady

Don’t sweat if your hand doesn’t detach like the female protagonist in the movie “The Neon Demon”. Our master list of “female mastrubation techniques” will make sure your self-love sessions turn completely magical!

1. Touching Your Body Amply: This is the basic step, after all, you need to know your body well. Bullet points:

   • Your hand should gently cup your breast with the fingers guiding the activities.
   • Your fingers can wobble around while they get to know places like nipples, thorax, neck, and other key erogenous zones.
   • Every woman’s body is unique, so spend time to explore yours, knowing where your trigger-points are.

2. Pamper The Nipples: For most of the women, nipples are sensitive rockets launching you into the world of pleasure. Bullet points:

   • Pluck them softly and tease a bit.
   • Use a lubricant to make your hand motion smoother.
   • You can use a romantic, old school ‘Wet N Wild’ hand job, slicking your fingers all the way with little ‘Oh-Oh-Oh’s escaping in between.

3. Vagina, The Updated Version: Every gynaecologist (and nearly all men) will confirm how unique each vagina is. So, how can we forget this personal part in our how-to guide?

   • Using a lubricated hand, rub around the upper part of your vagina i.e. vulva. It will stimulate the clitoris and its surrounding areas.
   • Inside the vagina, use your finger’s ‘Motion of the Ocean’ technique, creating gentle to mid-level pressure.
   • Vary the depth and rhythm until you reach the ‘Uhm, this-is-it’ level!

4. G-Spot Orgasm: Hold on, don’t dive in yet; you need to learn the coordinates of this hidden treasure. H3:

   • It is located on your front wall, and is roughly about one finger from the opening. Wink-wink
   • A G-spot orgasm feels different from a clitoral one. It’s deeper, more intense, and often creates an overwhelming feeling.
   • Use fingers palm side up, and go gently and purposefully towards this spot, with your free hand massaging the outer labia.

5. Double The Fun: Why settle for one finger when you can use two? H3:

   • When you’re on your back with legs wide open, let the middle and index finger come together inside and gently wiggle. It’s akin to a ‘Scissor’ move.
   • Use your thumb to wander around your nipples or outer vaginal area, simultaneously rubbing the clitoris with your other hand.

6. Creative Use Of Toys: Like how a man on a date would try to impress you by taking you for a stroll around the Paris of the East (Johor Bahru), an o-toy does its part as well. H3:

   • Start with a vibrator, ola-la! Nothing can possibly go wrong here.
   • For the more adventurous, consider using a muscle massager, the ones women use to release the tension after a hairstyling session. Warning: Handle with the utmost delicacy.
   • Gentle pulsing motions around the vulva can stimulate the clitoris, while deeper penetration can tease the cervix and G-spot.

7. The Magic Bowl Technique: A goodie for those who enjoy a bit of extra sensation. H3:

   • Fill the bathtub with warm water, hop in, get cosy, get comfy. Let your mind relax and dive deep.
   • Lower yourself until only your thighs are out of water- now, use your hands to apply pressure on the vulva. The buoyancy acting against gravity and the swirl of the water resembles a warm ‘Mexican’ hand job, which is always a good time, amirite?

8. Get Kinky With Feelings: Emotional connection isn’t just limited to your lover. H3:

   • Clinch your eyes creating an imaginary or real favorite lover’s face, intertwining what you do with your hands.
   • Audio and visual aids are effective too, go ahead and watch that hot scene from the mandatory three Netflix series, or listen to a piece of erotica.
   • Sit in a chair with your thighs spread around a dildo tucked between the cushion and start gyrating in rope-a-dope fashion.

9. The ‘SHHHH Don’t Disturb’ Technique: We all have been there with our banzai bedroom behaviour, but what if your neighbour is a keen observer like Winston Churchill? H3:

   • To quieten your moans and panting, try biting your lower lip or your hand while creating your own bed version of the Noble Peace prize ceremony.
   • Use your pillow to suppress your noises. Also, it could be used to squeeze with force, adding to pleasure.
   • Bring out your inner actor, turn down the bedroom lights and channel your inner Scarlet Johansson.

10. Squirt - The Holy Grail: Gathering all your magical alchemical powers hoping to reach the climax. H3:

• Put on your guard and count to five! Hold your fingers leading towards the G-spot, applying firm, steady pressure. Just as you imagine you can’t bear it any longer… release your grip.
• Once you’ve learnt this trick, use it to your advantage. Time your pressure and release until you find yourself on the holy ground of a squirting orgasm.

Pack your toolkit, will you?Consider this your guide to self-love. These female mastrubation techniques are sure to add fuel to your shine and ignite your fifth gear. And, remember, flaunt your self-love with pride! Happy touching!

Frequently Asked Questions

What is masturbation and why is it important for female sexual health?

Masturbation, also known as self-stimulation, refers to the act of physically stimulating one’s own genitals to experience sexual pleasure. It is considered a normal part of life for many and a healthy aspect of human sexuality. For females, masturbation plays an important role in understanding their bodies, becoming comfortable with their sexuality, and identifying which techniques work best for them. Additionally, masturbation isn’t done only for mere pleasure but also has health benefits like reducing stress, improving mood, and boosting self-esteem.

Physical self-stimulation during female masturbation can focus primarily on the clitoris. The clitoris is the primary center for female sexual pleasure, as it contains thousands of sensitive nerve endings. Additionally, a female can stimulate other areas like the vaginal opening, g-spot inside the vagina, and outer labia for varied sensations. The amount of pressure, speed, and technique can vary greatly among individuals, so it is essential to explore and understand one’s own body in order to achieve the most satisfying experience.

Female masturbation can be facilitated by creating a comfortable and private environment. Find a quiet space, perhaps dim the lights or play soothing music, and use a lubricant to enhance stimulation and avoid discomfort. Clean and pamper your body with some quality personal care products, leaving your mind and body relaxed and ready to focus on self-pleasure.

It is crucial to remember hygiene and safety during masturbation sessions. Using a personal lubricant to reduce friction and improve comfort is essential, especially with the use of toys or fingers. Cleanliness of toys and hands is also crucial to avoid any infection. Moreover, it is vital to avoid any invitations or suggestions to share your personal, intimate experiences with others unless you are truly comfortable in doing so.

Enhancing the masturbation experience requires exploration, communication, and creativity. As individuals have different preferences and sensitivities, it is essential to discover what provides you the most pleasure. This can be achieved through trial and error, using various techniques and tools. Additionally, engaging in fantasy, reading erotic literature, watching or listening to erotic media, or using toys can offer a more immersive and satisfying experience. Most importantly, it’s all about personal comfort and desires, so finding what works best for you is the key to creating a fulfilling and pleasurable experience.