Top 10 Best Femdom Sex Positions for Intense Sensual Engagement

Imagine the warmth of kneeling on a soft velvet floor, the soft scent of candle wax, and the allure of your dominant lover commanding you to please them as they see fit. This is the exquisite aesthetic of femdom sex, or female-domination, where the woman leads the session and establishes control over her partner. It’s an experience unlike anything else, and it’s time to dive into the ten best femdom positions to explore this kinky world without restraints.

H2 Headings:

1. The Queen’s Throne - Arm Yourself with Humility
2. Puppy Playtime - Surrender to Her Sensual Touch
3. Captivate His Eyes - The Siren’s Seduction
4. Leaning Ladder - Savor Your Servitude
5. Teasing Tension - The Chained Victim
6. Inescapable Struggle - The Iron Maiden
7. Selfless Serenity - The Zen Master’s Guidance
8. Blissful Punishment - Welcome, Mr. Whippler
9. Corner Command - Show Your Worth
10. Voyeuristic Voodoo - The Mind’s Wild Journey

1. The Queen’s Throne - Arm Yourself with Humility

In our first femdom sex position, imagine your submissive lover (let’s call them “Mr. Sub” for this article). Their hands and knees are bound, and they are required to crawl towards their dominant Queen on all fours. There, they must seek her pleasure and obey her every command with humility and unwavering dedication.

Remember, your dominant Queen can swing from gentle teasing to aggressive thickness in a heartbeat. To truly embrace this role, take a moment to calculate how you’ll use your body to dominate their senses and create an experience that will leave them wanting more. Think about the subtle press of your heel against their throat, the tender touch of your whip, and the thrill of hearing them practically begging for your touch. “The Queen’s Throne” is about a power dynamic that shifts and evolves as your pleasure becomes their only focus.

2. Puppy Playtime - Surrender to Her Sensual Touch

Ah, the classic “Puppy Position,” where your dominant lover remains on their hands and knees while Mr. Sub is given the honor of tasting, licking, and sucking every inch of their body. It’s a glorious experience, and it’s all about surrendering to your dominant lover’s sensual touch.

In this position, you can move from gentle, teasing licks to more forceful, demanding kisses depending on your dominant lover’s desires. Don’t be afraid to explore their body with your whole being, feeling the curves of their bones and the softness of their skin. Remember, in this moment, you are there to serve and provide pleasure without any expectations in return.

3. Captivate His Eyes - The Siren’s Seduction

Sirens are mystifying creatures with long flows and hypnotic songs that attract seafarers towards them, often leading to their doom. In the realm of femdom sex, the dominant lover can use her striking beauty to capture the attention and imagination of their submissive partner. “Captivate His Eyes” is all about living out this legendary tale of seduction.

Imagining that your dominant lover removes all their clothes, leaving them a tantalizing vision. Mr. Sub is forced to sit on the floor with his legs wide apart, and she towers over him, captivating his eyes with her seductive gaze as she rubs her luscious body against his aroused state. This position is about vulnerability, control, and using your eyes as weapons of pleasure.

4. Leaning Ladder - Savor Your Servitude

The “Leaning Ladder” is a femdom sex position for those whose love to feel completely enveloped by their dominant lover as they caress and kiss every inch of their body. In this position, your dominant lover’s back has an anchor so that they can lean over Mr. Sub, providing them the perfect angle to offer deep and sensual kisses.

This position creates an intimate connection between your dominant lover and Mr. Sub. The use of toys, like a riding crop or a small whip, can add some spice to this love affair. Even the sharp crack of a snap can create an exhilarating, yet painfully pleasurable experience for Mr. Sub. Remember, it’s all about savoring your servitude and embracing every command with unbridled enthusiasm.

5. Teasing Tension - The Chained Victim

The “Teasing Tension” position is an excellent choice when your dominant lover needs to remind their submissive partner whose in control. In this scenario, Mr. Sub is bound in a spread eagle position, presented to your dominant lover for their pleasure and amusement.

Use your free hands to tease, vex, and agitate Mr. Sub’s desires. Touch them intimately, but not enough to satisfy them. The visual and emotional impact of Mr. Sub’s body squirming with desperate need is a powerful reminder of the sensual world that exists between the two of you.

6. Inescapable Struggle - The Iron Maiden

The “Inescapable Struggle” is a ferocious femdom sex position that focuses on power and control. Here, Mr. Sub is placed in a full hogtie with scraps of cloth that restrict their mouth and silence their cries. Their legs are tied apart, and their hands are bound securely behind their back. This is the perfect stage for your dominant lover to wield their power.

In the Iron Maiden, your dominant lover can torture Mr. Sub with every stroke of their whip or touch of their hands. Use your voice to humiliate him, counting the number of strikes as you take pleasure in the inescapable struggle that he’s now lost in.

7. Selfless Serenity - The Zen Master’s Guidance

Life can be chaotic and filled with stress. However, the “Selfless Serenity” femdom sex position is meant for those looking for a moment of quiet reflection, where your dominant lover can channel their inner Zen Master. Justin, you are here to guide Mr. Sub towards inner peace and enlightenment.

In this position, your dominant lover can use their body to channel the energy of the universe towards Mr. Sub, infusing him with a sense of calm and focus unparalleled by anyone else. Use your breath to sync with Mr. Sub, feeling the rhythm of your life and love entwined with breath.

8. Blissful Punishment - Welcome, Mr. Whippler

Ah, the mighty whip. A tool to be wielded with care and intention, the whip is a favorite among those in the femdom scene. In the “Blissful Punishment” position, your dominant lover can bend Mr. Sub over a pair of handcuffs or a bondage bench and unleash their inner dominatrix.

Use the whip to tease and stroke Mr. Sub’s body, enjoying the feel of his skin beneath your touch. Remember, the whip is meant to create an electrifying sense of pleasure and pain, so be sure to use it sparingly and with precision. The ultimate goal of this position is to help both you and your partner push your boundaries and explore new realms of pleasure.

9. Corner Command - Show Your Worth

The “Corner Command” position is all about making a statement, solidifying your position as the dominant power in your relationship. In this scenario, your dominant lover stands Mr. Sub in a corner of your bedroom or playroom, feet shoulder width apart, hands behind their back, and head bowed.

In this position, your dominant lover can use their voice or body language to show their displeasure and humiliation. Use your eyes to pierce through his defenses, feeling the heat of his blush and the burn of his tears. This is a moment of true connection, where your dominant lover can assert their authority and power without saying a word.

10. Voyeuristic Voodoo - The Mind’s Wild Journey

Finally, much femdom sex is rooted in the power of the mind, where your dominant lover uses their imagination to weave a tale of pleasure, pain, and desire. In the “Voyeuristic Voodoo” position, your dominant lover can use elements of erotic storytelling and roleplaying to create a scene that’s both intricate and tantalizing.

Imagine that your dominant lover tells the story of a beautiful and fierce sorceress who wields her powers of pleasure and pain over her unsuspecting captive, Mr. Sub. She can use her voice to whisper kind and harsh words into his ear, controlling his thoughts and desires at will. This is the ultimate in femdom sensuality, where your dominant lover’s mind become the ultimate weapon and the ultimate erotic tool.

That wraps up our tour of the top 10 femdom sex positions. Remember to always communicate with your partner and set limits and boundaries before beginning any kinky play. The world of femdom is vast and diverse, offering endless possibilities for exploration and engagement. And with that, I bid you all a gentle, humble bow, and wish you ripe, juicy apples on your journey toward pleasure, power, and sensuality.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is female dominance in BDSM?

Femdom, or female dominant, refers to the roleplay dynamics within the BDSM lifestyle where a woman is the dominant party in the power exchange between the couple. This is opposite of the male-dominates scenario, with the man assuming the submissive role.

2. Why is the position called ‘Missionary’?

The missionary sex position is known by that name because the people traditionally involved in Christian missions in the colonial times tended to live with, or near, indigenous communities. Their Christian religious views influenced these local people and the local lifestyle to an extent, even if not directly through any sermons. So when a man was considered “male head”, a phrase used quite a lot during those times, they naturally adopted a sex position that reflected the ‘power dynamics’ as a physical act. This sexual pose has been historically depicted with the woman being at the bottom. Therefore the name ‘missionary’.

3. Are there other types of dom-sub dynamics besides Femdom and Maledom?

Absolutely! Dom/sub dynamics don’t just stop with a Female Dominant/Male Submissive. They can occur with other genders or within non-binary, same-sex, and cross-gender dynamics as well. The roles aren’t dependent on genitals; instead, they focus on psychological and power dynamics within a relationship or BDSM scene. Examples could include: Dominant Lesbian/Femme sub, Trans man dominant/Trans woman sub, or Non-binary top/bottom, to name a few.

4. Can you do BDSM without physically harming the sub?

Indeed, a form of BDSM often described as “safe, sane, and consensual” avoids actual physical harm and centers instead on psychological or erotic control. There is also an emphasis on careful use of physical methods (spanking, caning, etc.) with knowledge of the risks, care, and consideration to maintain the safety and health of the sub. Communication is key. The parties need to negotiate in detail what behaviors, rules, and safety procedures are in place to create trust, safety, and ultimately enjoyment in this context.

5. Can the Femdom role only be done by a female dominant person or can males and trans individuals also perform the dominant role?

Any gender can perform any role they feel comfortable in the context of BDSM or dominant/submissive relationships. A Female-Dom might traditionally involve a woman, but that doesn’t preclude men or non-binary individuals taking up this role. This lifestyle embraces all individuals who desire it, and individuals’ personalities, rather than gender, generally define what roles they can best assume.